Dating and related expressions
Dating idioms which may be useful for you now or ever:
Phrasal Verbs
- ASK sb OUT: To ask someone if they’d like to go on a date with you.
- CHAT sb UP: To talk to someone in a way that shows you’re attracted to them.
- CHEAT ON sb: To have sex with a person who’s not your boyfriend or girlfriend; wife or husband.
- GO OUT WITH sb: If you go out with someone (the infinitive use of the verb) it means you are literally going somewhere with the person you’re attracted to (going out on a date most commonly). If you’re going out with someone (the gerund form of the verb) it means that you’ve been meeting with that person on repeated occasions, you’re getting to know each other.
- HIT ON sb: To act in a way that shows you’re attracted to the other person. It’s similar to chatting someone up, but hitting on someone might include other forms of flirting like getting a bit more physical than normal (jokingly punching her/him, touching hands, a lot of hugging, etc.), or giving the other person sexy, provocative looks.
- HOOK UP with sb: To have sex with someone. However, for some people it might mean anywhere from making out to sex.
- LEAD sb ON: To cause someone to think that you are interested in them when you are not (either because you want the attention or to get something)
- MAKE OUT with sb: To heavily kiss. Can also include touching and petting.
- MAN UP: Not really specifically a dating phrasal verb, but it’s what a guy would tell his friend when he doesn’t have enough courage to ask a girl out or make a move.
- PICK UP sb: To have a make out session or have sex with a girl you just met, generally at a pub, bar or night club.
- STAND sb UP: (most commonly used as to GET STOOD UP) if you stand someone up, you don’t show up to a date.
- TURN sb DOWN: to say no to a date invitation, or to reject any kind of romantic intention from someone
Verbs
- To date sb: to be going out with a person.
- Drool over sb: to look or stare at someone with obvious desire.
- Flirt: To show through actions, words or attitudes that you like someone.
- Ogle: To look or stare at someone in a way that shows you’re sexually interested in that person.
- Reject: To say no to a romantic invitation. To turn someone down.
- Tease: to playfully and jokingly make fun of and provoke someone because you’re attracted to that person. ‘A tease’ is also a woman who leads men on.
- To be seeing sb: to be going out with a person in whom you’re interested in getting to know better to find out if he or she is a good match for you. Similar to to be going out with someone or to date someone.
- Wink at sb: Wink at sb: To close one eye while looking at a person (girls usually do this) to insinuate sexual attraction or because they want to look sexy. It’s not specifically a dating term, but it’s usually associated with seduction.
